Real Talk: Leadership and Racing Lessons
Hey there! So, I wear two hats – I’m a leadership coach and a motorsport racer. A crazy combo, right? One thing I’ve figured out is that true accountability is often misunderstood in both worlds. Let me break it down for you.
Getting Your Head in the Game
You know what’s crazy? The line between being confident and insecure is razor-thin. It all boils down to how quiet you can get in your own head. Trust me, this skill is gold whether you’re zooming down a racetrack or leading a team meeting.
When I’m behind the wheel, I’ve got to make split-second decisions that can make or break the race. There’s zero time for second-guessing or worrying about what others think. I’ve learned to trust my gut and my training because, in that moment, I’m the one with the full picture.
Pro Tip: Find ways to quiet that mental chatter. Maybe it’s meditation, maybe it’s a pre-game ritual. Whatever works for you. When you can shut out the noise, your decisions get much sharper.

Owning It Without Beating Yourself Up
Here’s a wild thing I tell my clients: “I don’t care what anybody says about me – not my wife, my mum, nobody.” Sounds harsh, right? But it’s not about not giving a damn. It’s about perspective.
Sure, if my mum called to say she’s disappointed, it would sting. But I’d quickly remind myself that even she doesn’t have the full story. Nobody does, except you.
This mindset? It’s a game-changer, whether you’re leading a team or racing a car. Nobody else fully gets your intentions or the whole context of your decisions. And guess what? You don’t have the full picture of their lives either.
Leadership and Racing: More Alike Than You’d Think
In racing, you can’t let what the spectators, your teammates, or even your pit crew thinks shake you up. You’re the one in the driver’s seat, making those split-second calls based on what you see.
Leading a team? Same deal. You’ve got to make decisions that others might not get or agree with. The key is sticking to your guns while still being open to feedback.
Pro Tip: Work on your listening skills. In leadership, really hear what your team is saying. In racing, tune into your car and the track. Trust me, it’ll up your game in both arenas.
The Big Payoff
When you nail this self-awareness and accountability thing, you stop letting other people’s opinions push you around. You get tougher, more focused, and just plain better – whether you’re leading or racing.
But hey, this doesn’t mean you turn into a person who ignores everyone. It’s about taking in feedback, but filtering it through your own understanding and context. You’re taking responsibility for your choices while still being kind to yourself and others.
Pro Tip: After big events – a major meeting or a race – take time to break it down. What worked? What didn’t? Keep this up, and you’ll keep getting better in both leadership and racing.

The Bottom Line
Whether you’re leading a team or racing a car, getting this accountability thing right is huge. It can be the difference between crushing it and crashing out.
Get this approach down pat, and you’re not just leveling up at work or on the track – you’re setting yourself up to handle whatever curveballs life throws at you.
Believe me, it’s a total game-changer. Give it a shot!